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Post by me on May 30, 2016 3:43:20 GMT -5
I can't believe it… They hire me to do two choreographies, and they promise me 300€. I tell them this is my main job, I have nothing else, they should take 5% taxes off the 300€. Today I get paid 240€ as a sideline job, so they've taken 30%. I get 154€…  And I guess there's nothing I can do, there's no written contract or anything. That's fucking shitty.  |
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Post by me on May 31, 2016 8:56:52 GMT -5
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Post by cally on May 31, 2016 9:21:42 GMT -5
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Post by sophiemom on May 31, 2016 22:54:27 GMT -5
Hey kat531 ah, you know, what they said! |
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Post by me on Jun 1, 2016 3:00:15 GMT -5
Happy Birthday PlayMyJam !!    ^he wrote wrong… he meant YOUR  |
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Post by cally on Jun 1, 2016 4:36:32 GMT -5
Another birthday day lady!! Happy birthday PlayMyJam !! Hope you have a great day |
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Post by me on Jun 4, 2016 6:13:34 GMT -5
Happy Birthday sparrow hope you have a great day!  |
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Post by GG102 on Jun 4, 2016 7:41:59 GMT -5
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Post by sparrow on Jun 4, 2016 7:47:30 GMT -5
Lots of crazy ass geminis on this board! |
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Post by cally on Jun 4, 2016 16:27:00 GMT -5
Lots of crazy ass geminis on this board! Happy birthday!!! And have a great day!!! |
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Post by sparrow on Jun 7, 2016 9:22:54 GMT -5
So, I've been dating this guy. It's weird because I'm divorced and doing this shit in my 30s now, and guys are basically the same as they were when I was 15. I had to kind of read him the riot act because we've been going out for four months and he still introduces me as "Tracie", not his girlfriend, and I'm tired of this seeing each other limbo. So I called him out and he said he didn't really see the need to "put a label on it", and believe it or not I actually said the words (nicely) "It just feels like you're miming every part of a committed relationship while keeping your options open, and I can't stick around for that forever and then the label would just be ex. So let's take some time to think and revisit this next time we hang out." He just kind of looked meek and said "ok" very quietly. So, I am kind of proud of myself for being assertive. Who knows where it will go. Unfortunately I really like him so I don't want to totally break it off even though that's probably what I should do.
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Post by cally on Jun 7, 2016 10:15:12 GMT -5
So, I've been dating this guy. It's weird because I'm divorced and doing this shit in my 30s now, and guys are basically the same as they were when I was 15. I had to kind of read him the riot act because we've been going out for four months and he still introduces me as "Tracie", not his girlfriend, and I'm tired of this seeing each other limbo. So I called him out and he said he didn't really see the need to "put a label on it", and believe it or not I actually said the words (nicely) "It just feels like you're miming every part of a committed relationship while keeping your options open, and I can't stick around for that forever and then the label would just be ex. So let's take some time to think and revisit this next time we hang out." He just kind of looked meek and said "ok" very quietly. So, I am kind of proud of myself for being assertive. Who knows where it will go. Unfortunately I really like him so I don't want to totally break it off even though that's probably what I should do. Congratulations! And let`s hope he thinks about it and next time both of you are able to talk about it a little bit more... |
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Post by GG102 on Jun 7, 2016 11:31:52 GMT -5
Guys never grow up! It's really good, sparrow, to speak your mind in a relationship and not let your feelings fester and then turn into anger and resentment. I'm a firm believer of "speaking ones mind." |
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Post by sophiemom on Jun 7, 2016 13:15:35 GMT -5
So, I've been dating this guy. It's weird because I'm divorced and doing this shit in my 30s now, and guys are basically the same as they were when I was 15. I had to kind of read him the riot act because we've been going out for four months and he still introduces me as "Tracie", not his girlfriend, and I'm tired of this seeing each other limbo. So I called him out and he said he didn't really see the need to "put a label on it", and believe it or not I actually said the words (nicely) "It just feels like you're miming every part of a committed relationship while keeping your options open, and I can't stick around for that forever and then the label would just be ex. So let's take some time to think and revisit this next time we hang out." He just kind of looked meek and said "ok" very quietly. So, I am kind of proud of myself for being assertive. Who knows where it will go. Unfortunately I really like him so I don't want to totally break it off even though that's probably what I should do. I think you communicated your needs and wants quite well there. There is no a woman alive who wants the "be the cow with the free milk". He needs to acknowledge your needs and introduce you as you want. That is not asking too much. If he cannot not do that well, he is not so much your boyfriend but more of a life lesson. Good luck! |
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Post by willowmoonblood on Jun 7, 2016 15:54:43 GMT -5
So, I've been dating this guy. It's weird because I'm divorced and doing this shit in my 30s now, and guys are basically the same as they were when I was 15. I had to kind of read him the riot act because we've been going out for four months and he still introduces me as "Tracie", not his girlfriend, and I'm tired of this seeing each other limbo. So I called him out and he said he didn't really see the need to "put a label on it", and believe it or not I actually said the words (nicely) "It just feels like you're miming every part of a committed relationship while keeping your options open, and I can't stick around for that forever and then the label would just be ex. So let's take some time to think and revisit this next time we hang out." He just kind of looked meek and said "ok" very quietly. So, I am kind of proud of myself for being assertive. Who knows where it will go. Unfortunately I really like him so I don't want to totally break it off even though that's probably what I should do. Wow! You are my hero I would never be able to say that to someone...I am too much of a people pleaser. I really do admire your assertiveness  I wished I had a bit of it! |
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