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Post by matty on Mar 13, 2017 23:58:23 GMT -5
i feel so bad
I saw a kitty running around today and I tried to get her because we have a huge snow storm hitting tonight. And I saw a sign that someone lost their cat and i thought she might be her. She ran as soon as I got out of my car though.
I have been thinking about her all night and just feel so bad. I texted the person who is missing their cat telling them the area i saw her but i doubt it will be much help. idk if that was even their cat but either way...
I just feel so bad that she is probably going to freeze tomorrow. I can't stop thinking about it. Hugging my warm furbabies right now tbh.
doesn't help that its my time of the month either lol
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Post by willowmoonblood on Mar 14, 2017 10:23:58 GMT -5
I just need to vent...my husband is on this big "mindfulness" kick and right now I don't want to be mindful of someone else actions, I just want to pout because they are mean. Basically I am sick of trying to be nice to people and they in turn talking to me any type of way. I had a run in with a mother in the girl scout troop I am the leader of. She felt I did not give her enough notice (four days) that the money for the cookies her child sold was due at the end of the sale (you know just like the previous three years ) so after several not so nice texts to me basically saying I was a failure as a leader because I did not send her reminders every week that she actually had to pay the money back on a certain day she told me she would have it to me by the due date. Due date came and went no word from her. The next morning I texted and said "Hey I have to put the money in the bank this morning. I also have to let council know if we can not make that last payment, thanks" She owed 3170.00 in money. She finally responded brought me the money basically throwing it at me and said " I don't appricate you THREATING ME" Seems she was out of town last week and didn't make it back in until late Sunday that was why she didn't bring the money. No texts telling me this, no text saying I will bring Monday morning, nothing. Through all of this I had to remain professional and I actually apoligzed to her FOUR times! For not being able to read her mind I guess. I think what upset me most about this is I have shared with the mothers in the troop that I have several anxieties, and they all know that in past years families have fallen short when it came to turning in all the money which in turned set off my anxieties. A simple text to me would have saved me some sleepless nights. Then this morning, I received a message from a seller on Ebay. I have ordered a magazine I had been looking for and basically the info I received stated it has been shipped and would arrive to me by March 6th. March 8th nothing. So I sent (what I thought) was a message to the seller asking about tracking info since I had not received the Mag, my fear was it was delivered to the wrong house. I have never had something not arrive to me so I have never had to contact a seller after payement. They replied back something to the effect of "Sorry family emergancy, didn't get mailed out till a couple of days later you should get it shortly. Next time just message me instead of opening up a claim, I will send tracking info when I return from this business trip" Maybe I am too sensitive but I felt that was a bit rude. How was I to know that it wasn't shipped until later when you had marked it shipped on the site? Again a simple note saying something to the effect of "hey things going on will ship item shortly" would have solved me even having to contact anyone. Sorry for the long rant/vent. I guess I am just in a don't be nice to people because they take that as weak mood this month LOL Aww I'm so sorry! I don't think you've done anything wrong, and definitely nothing you need to apologize for! But I know the feeling, I'm the same way. And I think if you've bought something, you have a right to ask, even if no one said anything about shipment, but especially if there has been possible arrival date. Nothing wrong with that. I totally feel you tho! Not to give a sob story about myself or anything, but to try and make a long story short, we have an assistant at school, that fails to do her work almost every day. No one knows why she's working in the school, because she hates kids, she hates the job, she hates the two classes per week she has to be a teacher because she has no idea what she's supposed to do with the students, she doesn't wanna help them with their homework, she doesn't wanna go outside during the breaks, she doesn't want any sick kids in the same classroom where she has to be... you get the point. I've done as I always do, I keep my mouth shut and do every single thing that people ask me to. I also feel like I'm the new guy and I don't have education in this field, so I'm in no position to question anything or say no to anyone. But the teachers have been really happy with me. They're sometimes fighting over who gets me in their class, lol. I have also cleaned up a lot after this assistant. All I've ever heard all fall is "Karin forgot to do this, can you do it? Karin didn't want to do this, can you do it? Karin forgot this, can you fix it? Karin messed up this can you fix it? karin didn't show up today, can you take care of this? etc etc, and everytime I've been asked to fix something this woman forgot, I've kept my mouth shut and just did it. In school if you have an idea, you share it, and I've shared a lot of ideas with the teachers and they've used quite a lot of my ideas, thinking they worked really great with the kids. So this other assistant has 2 hours a week where she's a teacher, with a teachers salary, and she always complain about these classes, that she doesn't know what to do and she doesn't wanna have these classes, and eventually she asked me to take over one of these classes, so now she has one left. So here 3 weeks ago she was gone for one day and asked if I can take her class with the first graders, and I said of course, and can I plan the class myself? (since she obviously hates it and always just lets the kids do whatever they want). The week's theme was lizards, so I found some cool 3D lizards we were supposed to do, but then the this class' real teacher suggested I could also do heart decorations for valentine's day. This assistant was supposed to be with me in the class for 10 minutes before she had to leave for the day, and asked if I found a good lizard model. I said "the teacher wanted us to do valentine's day decorations, but I have a good lizard model if you'd like to do it next week". She hissed at me "fine you do all the planning, but I'm keeping the salary!" and I'm like uumm? The students come in and I have planned a little info about valentine's day, I'm gonna ask them if they know what we're celebrating and why etc... And this assistant stands up in front of the class and says "it's valentine's day next week, you're gonna make hearts." there goes my info... When she's about to start telling the kids HOW to make the hearts, which I hadn't told her, and I had printed out pics and ideas from the internet, I politely asked her if I could take over now (since this was the class she asked me to have) and she just storms out. At the end of the day, I get a call from the principal if I could come to a meeting, that this assistant has something she needs to get off her chest. So we have a meeting where this woman is sitting there in front of the principal, lashing out at me, that I've criticized her the entire fall and I keep telling her her classes and the way she teaches aren't good enough, and that the job she's doing isn't good enough, and she can always feel this critique coming from me. I couldn't believe it!! All I've ever done is pick up after her, and listen to her complaints, and I have not said a word, I have just saved her ass from angry teachers, and this is the thanks I get? At first I kept asking her to give me examples of how I've criticized her (so I could change) but she couldn't come up with one single example. Eventually she said "well once you told me how I should do a homework with one student" (my mom's student, where my mom explained a detailed, complicated homework, and asked me to tell this woman, who usually just sends the kids home if she doesn't understand their homework, or just never shows up, so I get to step in anyways). Then she said that I told her they were gonna make hearts today, but then I felt the need to plan her next week's class as well, because I didn't think her planning was good enough. I'm like "no, I had two classes planned, I just offered you the other one if you wanted to use it". Towards the end of the meeting I couldn't even say anything anymore because I would just have started crying, which is what I did the entire evening, and still the next day at school. Like how the fuck am I supposed to understand that if all the teachers love my ideas and are grateful for them, one assistant is offended by them? I'm so done cleaning up after her. She's on her own now. I have no respect for that woman anymore. The principal is great tho, she saw how sad I got and actually called me the next day and said I'm doing a great job and not to care about this woman. Everyone is complaining about her and she fails to do her work all the time and with someone fixing up after her and getting appreciated for it, the principal guessed she felt threatened. And she had to take it out on someone, and I was the new guy and the easiest target and this woman tried to pull rang on me. The teacher actually told me that during my 8 months now without an education in the field, I've come so much further as an assistant than this woman has the last 30 years. LOL. I still have a hard time looking at this woman tho. She got me to a whole new level of Just Don't Give a Fuck. Sorry this got super long! I try not to let this incident bother me, but I'm still hurt. Getting shit when you really haven't done anything wrong, really sucks! Guess if I was the one who apologized to this woman during the meeting with the principal? Yes... Sorry that happened to you...further proof though that nice people are always seen as weak and taken advantage of. Some days I hate the world LOL
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Post by willowmoonblood on Mar 14, 2017 10:25:01 GMT -5
i feel so bad I saw a kitty running around today and I tried to get her because we have a huge snow storm hitting tonight. And I saw a sign that someone lost their cat and i thought she might be her. She ran as soon as I got out of my car though. I have been thinking about her all night and just feel so bad. I texted the person who is missing their cat telling them the area i saw her but i doubt it will be much help. idk if that was even their cat but either way... I just feel so bad that she is probably going to freeze tomorrow. I can't stop thinking about it. Hugging my warm furbabies right now tbh. doesn't help that its my time of the month either lol Aww I am sure the kitty is going to be alright. Hopefully the owners located her. I would feel sad about it to though. You really did do all you could though.
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Post by me on Mar 22, 2017 11:30:52 GMT -5
:88 I GOT A SUMMER JOB AT ONE OF THE BIGGEST DRUG COMPANIES IN FINLAND!!! :88 I applied there last summer, and made it to an interview, it was me and another girl, but the other girl got the job. And now I've applied to every single job they've had, for a year, but nothing. But now I got a call from the same interviewer, saying she remembered me from last summer and that she's offering me the job this summer instead. So I went to the final meeting today and I'm signing the contract in a couple of weeks!! Ah, I get to work with cancer research and stem cell research!! I'm so happy!!! :t2 :t2
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Post by willowmoonblood on Mar 22, 2017 11:41:55 GMT -5
:88 I GOT A SUMMER JOB AT ONE OF THE BIGGEST DRUG COMPANIES IN FINLAND!!! :88 I applied there last summer, and made it to an interview, it was me and another girl, but the other girl got the job. And now I've applied to every single job they've had, for a year, but nothing. But now I got a call from the same interviewer, saying she remembered me from last summer and that she's offering me the job this summer instead. So I went to the final meeting today and I'm signing the contract in a couple of weeks!! Ah, I get to work with cancer research and stem cell research!! I'm so happy!!! :t2 :t2 Congratulations!!!!
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Post by blackgoddess on Mar 22, 2017 15:01:50 GMT -5
:88 I GOT A SUMMER JOB AT ONE OF THE BIGGEST DRUG COMPANIES IN FINLAND!!! :88 I applied there last summer, and made it to an interview, it was me and another girl, but the other girl got the job. And now I've applied to every single job they've had, for a year, but nothing. But now I got a call from the same interviewer, saying she remembered me from last summer and that she's offering me the job this summer instead. So I went to the final meeting today and I'm signing the contract in a couple of weeks!! Ah, I get to work with cancer research and stem cell research!! I'm so happy!!! :t2 :t2 Congrats darling!!!! I am happy for you 😊❤
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Post by matty on Mar 22, 2017 15:18:26 GMT -5
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Post by GG102 on Mar 22, 2017 19:14:41 GMT -5
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Post by crazysexykool on Apr 5, 2017 19:25:13 GMT -5
Hard work pays off! Happy for you!
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Post by me on Apr 13, 2017 5:43:31 GMT -5
Happy Easter people! My mom and I are going to our summer place (= no electricity or running water) and they've promised snow, rain and degrees below freezing point... LOL!
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Post by cally on Apr 25, 2017 11:29:06 GMT -5
Hello everyone!!! I ´ve missed you all :6k it´s been a few months and I´ve been having some rough last months....last years actually...I finallu graduated from College almost 2 months ago, was a big thing for me to be able to study since my father went crazy and made up a big....big lie about me and torn his wife against me so she would kick me out his house I was living in since my boyfriend and I decided...well, I decided...to leave his family house for our relationship´s sake (wich seems to be a relief for him not to me..or our relationship) anyway, after my father made me very angry telling me all kind of things like I was exactly like my mother and how he felt sick everytime he looked at me because of it and how I was the personification of evil and wanted to laugh of him... I torn into a friend of mine who didn´t gave me any choice and moved in with her, after a month her sister had a problem and had to come back living with her so I had to leave...where would I go since I had no place left to go to....yep, I had to call my mother and shame on me come back to her for shelter and food since in 2 years I haven´t got a fucking job not even cleaning windows... I feel terrible and life in her house is a living hell but have to place to go so sucked it up cally! anyways, been a big thing for me to be able to study through all that. So my mom was diagnosticated with cancer a few months ago and last week she had cirgury so she was happy I was there to..well, to do everything since my brothers don´t do anything and yesterday I was coming back from a friend´s house and had really bad luck, felt into an irrigation ditch while chasing the bus and hurt my ancle like..bad..really bad I thought it was broken and felt so much pain traveling back home, couldn´t walk so a few hours later after my foot torn grey I decided to go to the hospital in little jumps, got x rays and stuff and the doctor said I almost broke my ancle but had like a really bad sprain (I don´t know if it´s the right word) so yeah, can´t walk for another 2 days and then I have to wear thios boot for like 2 weeks and then do phisical therapy, all good all good haha just my luck.
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Post by me on Apr 25, 2017 14:45:18 GMT -5
Congratulations cally on graduating! That's awesome! And I'm sorry to hear about everything else! Good to hear from you tho, and I'm glad you're ok! <3
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Post by GG102 on Apr 25, 2017 18:11:42 GMT -5
Glad you're back, cally, and thrilled that you graduated. Congrats! You've been gone for so long I was wondering what happened. Life is going to get better for you, cally!
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Post by willowmoonblood on Apr 26, 2017 8:41:56 GMT -5
cally Congratulations on Graduating ! Sorry everything else seems to be giving you such a hard time. I hope things improve soon
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Post by cally on May 4, 2017 8:48:20 GMT -5
Thanks you guys!!! :6k I´ll try to log in more often
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