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Post by matty on Nov 3, 2017 20:45:00 GMT -5
kat531Ugh you are breaking my heart girl I wanna give you a hug. I have two cats too and the older/bigger one is so protective of my little one that idk what she'd do if something happened to her. I can't even bathe the little one without the older one attacking me to "save" her sister I know it sucks so bad right now but at least you still have your other baby and y'all can help one another through it. It's not fair at all though and again I'm so sorry. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Post by kat531 on Nov 3, 2017 21:15:12 GMT -5
Absolutely heartbreaking, kat531 , so sorry to read the above post. It's torture when you are trying to second guess the thoughts of your poor little Leila; if they could only talk. But they can't. You did what you thought was best, and you're a good mom, it just wasn't Leila's time. She's in Kitty Heaven with my Georgie and I hope they find one another! That's one major thing I'm looking forward to when I die. A whole gaggle of little critters there waiting to see me again. I've been a caretaker for many, many animals in my life and every one of them has adored me. I strongly believe if we are good stewards to our animals in this life that we get to have claim on them in the next--because they will want to be with us too. And all animals (innocent creatures) go to heaven! By the way, I called this pet loss hotline and the counselor just ended up making me feel way worse, saying the vet was incompetent and never should have left Leila alone overnight--and that I should write a complaint letter to the vet licensing board.
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Post by kat531 on Nov 3, 2017 21:21:28 GMT -5
kat531 Ugh you are breaking my heart girl I wanna give you a hug. I have two cats too and the older/bigger one is so protective of my little one that idk what she'd do if something happened to her. I can't even bathe the little one without the older one attacking me to "save" her sister I know it sucks so bad right now but at least you still have your other baby and y'all can help one another through it. It's not fair at all though and again I'm so sorry. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love you guys, my long time internet friends. Yeah, it's really heartbreaking with Annabelle. She used to lick Leila's head every time Leila asked for it. Annabelle would snuggle up and sleep against Leila all the time. They pounced and played hide and seek together. And now Annabelle is searching all over the house for Leila, meowing for her. They were my little baby girls. We had 2 years of complete bliss/ heaven with the 3 of us here. Never ever take anything for granted.
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Post by willowmoonblood on Nov 3, 2017 21:26:20 GMT -5
I am so sorry for your loss Kat. I have only had one cat my entire life, I am more a dog person. But I remember the day Bopper just disappeared, this was like 25 years ago and I still look for him whenever I see an orange cat. Sending cyber hugs your way... I will be thinking of you and your other precious baby.
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Post by kat531 on Nov 3, 2017 21:28:00 GMT -5
I think there is a ghost in my apartment like wtf... Brb being haunted It's probably your cats, Lol.
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Post by kat531 on Nov 3, 2017 21:33:14 GMT -5
These are my eyeballs after I've been crying all day. Aren't i beautiful The one positive out of all this is that I couldn't give a shit about what Mr. Mathers is doing or not doing. He can take his Stan capsules and shove them up his ass for all I care.
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Post by matty on Nov 3, 2017 22:12:50 GMT -5
kat531Awww Take a nice hot shower girl and light some candles put on your favorite movie and drink some wine
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Post by kat531 on Nov 3, 2017 22:26:18 GMT -5
kat531 Awww Take a nice hot shower girl and light some candles put on your favorite movie and drink some wine Nice in theory except I can't stand watching movies and I don't drink alcohol, Lol. I think I might pop another Ativan (prescribed!) to try to knock myself out for the night. I'm done with this awful day.
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Post by me on Nov 4, 2017 8:07:08 GMT -5
Oh kat531 I am so sorry for your loss! Words can't describe how horrible it is to lose a pet, and especially if it's unexpected! I guess it's just to try to take one day at a time and grieve! Hope you and your other kitty will be healthy and ok! Hugs! ❤
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Post by kat531 on Nov 4, 2017 14:40:13 GMT -5
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Post by kat531 on Nov 4, 2017 14:42:55 GMT -5
And a couple more... Sorry to take over the thread but this somehow helps me feel a little better.
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Post by matty on Nov 4, 2017 15:43:10 GMT -5
kat531awww precious bb!!! she looked like she loved you soooo much! she was lucky to have you <333
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Post by matty on Nov 5, 2017 23:12:18 GMT -5
im having so much anxiety
I got a third interview for a company that I really want to work for. They are flying me out on December 8th to do a three-hour interview and im already having panic attacks. I really need a job and I really would like to work for this company. But I suck so much at interviews. I get so nervous.
ugh I'm going to be a mess for the next month.
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Post by me on Nov 8, 2017 12:11:39 GMT -5
im having so much anxiety I got a third interview for a company that I really want to work for. They are flying me out on December 8th to do a three-hour interview and im already having panic attacks. I really need a job and I really would like to work for this company. But I suck so much at interviews. I get so nervous. ugh I'm going to be a mess for the next month. Wow, good luck! Three hour interview sounds massive! I guess it's just to try being yourself and be honest! I know the feeling tho! oh... I remember sitting there being quite sure they can hear my heartbeat, lol! I'm sure you'll be fine tho!
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Post by cally on Nov 15, 2017 18:09:51 GMT -5
Any support would be appreciated. My cat unexpectedly died last night after a surgery that was supposed to help her. Outside of online forums and Eminem, my cats are really my main source of enjoyment in life. And Leila loooved me. Always on my lap, next to me, following me around the house. Jealous if the other cat was too close to me. I'm so heartbroken I can't stop crying. She was only 6 yrs old. I don't even want to go home to see all the reminders of her being gone. My other cat keeps looking for her too. aaaww I´m so sorry!! I know it´s really hard, it happened to me too with my dog, she was like my baby and got really sick and she died in my arms while I was trying to hold her because she was having a heart attack and got scared because she wasn´t able to breath started looking for me at the house for help, I cried like a baby, it was so painfull, by the time she got worse I didn´t even left the house because I didn´t want to leave her...I feel you!!! Hope you feel better, It´s a process to say goodbye
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