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Post by alphagirl01 on Oct 7, 2024 17:52:43 GMT -5
I think you are 100% accurate! I do commend her for being able to keep it together it seems the pivotal times in the girls' lives. It's almost as if her and Eminem tag-teamed it: 2000-2004 he towed the line, 2004-2008 she was the stable parent, and they shared repsonsibility 2009-2015. But seems like since her sister passed in 2015-2016, she has been struggling again. Hopefully she has the support she needs, especially with a special needs child. Do you think she expected Em to take care of her son too? I think maybe yes, maybe no. I mean he took responsibility for Whitney, but not this kid? I hope his father is in his life and that is the reason Em doesn't step in as his dad. Bit it doesn't seem like it. I imagine Kim has a tremendous amount of guilt regarding her twin sister, like she didn't do enough. But she raised her sister's kids, which is more than enough. Kim needs to give herself some grace. It sounds like she's a good person trying to do the right thing, just sometimes she can't, you know what I mean? To be honest, I don't think her or Eminem put much thought behind what they did. Kind of like the rest of us really. Sometimes you go with what feels good and makes sense at the time. I honestly think her son's father was Eric Hartter, Stevie's father. The resemblance is uncanny! Also, supposedly Parker's dad died of an overdose in 2019. What are the odds of two of Kim's baby daddies dying the same year from the same thing? Plus, parental drug use can cause some forms of autism. Regarding Eminem taking guardianship of Stevie, I feel like he did that primarily as a deterrent from Eric Hartter coming around. No reason to come back if he is not the father. From my understanding Hartter did not relinquish/sign over his parental rights but Eminem had legal guardianship of Stevie as the husband of her legal parent, which is different than adoption. I don't think she just thought about it like, "Oh, Marshall will take care of my baby." I think it was more of, she is having another baby and she will provide the same way she has been. I'm sure his care is costly and probably one reason she downsized her home. I also suspect she is taking care of special needs kids for additional income. No proof, just a hunch based on it seeming like she has different special needs children in her home. I'm sure she does have guilt about her sister, but Dawn made bad choices and it caught up with her. But Kim was fortunate she had a partner with financial resources because I think she might have had the same fate as well as Eminem if they did not have his wealth. I agree 100%, she should give herself grace, because she helped to take care of Patrick and Adam as well. That is a lot for anyone, but especially for someone battling mental instability.
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Post by thisman85 on Oct 9, 2024 16:24:38 GMT -5
Do you think she expected Em to take care of her son too? I think maybe yes, maybe no. I mean he took responsibility for Whitney, but not this kid? I hope his father is in his life and that is the reason Em doesn't step in as his dad. Bit it doesn't seem like it. I imagine Kim has a tremendous amount of guilt regarding her twin sister, like she didn't do enough. But she raised her sister's kids, which is more than enough. Kim needs to give herself some grace. It sounds like she's a good person trying to do the right thing, just sometimes she can't, you know what I mean? To be honest, I don't think her or Eminem put much thought behind what they did. Kind of like the rest of us really. Sometimes you go with what feels good and makes sense at the time. I honestly think her son's father was Eric Hartter, Stevie's father. The resemblance is uncanny! Also, supposedly Parker's dad died of an overdose in 2019. What are the odds of two of Kim's baby daddies dying the same year from the same thing? Plus, parental drug use can cause some forms of autism. Regarding Eminem taking guardianship of Stevie, I feel like he did that primarily as a deterrent from Eric Hartter coming around. No reason to come back if he is not the father. From my understanding Hartter did not relinquish/sign over his parental rights but Eminem had legal guardianship of Stevie as the husband of her legal parent, which is different than adoption. I don't think she just thought about it like, "Oh, Marshall will take care of my baby." I think it was more of, she is having another baby and she will provide the same way she has been. I'm sure his care is costly and probably one reason she downsized her home. I also suspect she is taking care of special needs kids for additional income. No proof, just a hunch based on it seeming like she has different special needs children in her home. I'm sure she does have guilt about her sister, but Dawn made bad choices and it caught up with her. But Kim was fortunate she had a partner with financial resources because I think she might have had the same fate as well as Eminem if they did not have his wealth. I agree 100%, she should give herself grace, because she helped to take care of Patrick and Adam as well. That is a lot for anyone, but especially for someone battling mental instability. Perfectly said
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Post by antoniaalex18 on Oct 10, 2024 5:18:39 GMT -5
He has no longer strength or will for her and her problems. She understood that to some extent. Children are sometimes link for something vital if she can't do it herself. The theory is that her son's father is the same as Steve, judging by the similarities we can freely write that her father may not be the father as we thought, there are rumors of both, she doesn't even look like her mother too much. Autism is highly hereditary, but not necessarily, but retardation is, it is very visible in this picture where she is celebrating her birthday, she looked retarded even as a small child. I don't really get the first sentence of your message. (And the next one) What does that mean?
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Post by tcat on Oct 10, 2024 9:55:57 GMT -5
He has no longer strength or will for her and her problems. She understood that to some extent. Children are sometimes link for something vital if she can't do it herself. The theory is that her son's father is the same as Steve, judging by the similarities we can freely write that her father may not be the father as we thought, there are rumors of both, she doesn't even look like her mother too much. Autism is highly hereditary, but not necessarily, but retardation is, it is very visible in this picture where she is celebrating her birthday, she looked retarded even as a small child. She is not retarded. Can we please not comment on a child's looks? Admin it looks like we have another crazy enter the forum. No one here wants this kind of energy.
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Post by grimson on Oct 10, 2024 12:09:58 GMT -5
He has no longer strength or will for her and her problems. She understood that to some extent. Children are sometimes link for something vital if she can't do it herself. The theory is that her son's father is the same as Steve, judging by the similarities we can freely write that her father may not be the father as we thought, there are rumors of both, she doesn't even look like her mother too much. Autism is highly hereditary, but not necessarily, but retardation is, it is very visible in this picture where she is celebrating her birthday, she looked retarded even as a small child. I don't really get the first sentence of your message. (And the next one) What does that mean? Man pays for rehab and various things out of his own pocket. She's getting off drugs his entire life and doesn't know how to stop and she had no measure for anything. Desirable ex-husband. He is already known for that specific kindness and does it mostly so as not to resent the children. Gossip has it that he regrets the loan on the last house, although he couldn't let her move into something resembling a trailer, that would probably attract rumours and there were too many of them at one point of life.
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Post by antoniaalex18 on Oct 10, 2024 13:07:36 GMT -5
I don't really get the first sentence of your message. (And the next one) What does that mean? Man pays for rehab and various things out of his own pocket. She's getting off drugs his entire life and doesn't know how to stop and she had no measure for anything. Desirable ex-husband. He is already known for that specific kindness and does it mostly so as not to resent the children. Gossip has it that he regrets the loan on the last house, although he couldn't let her move into something resembling a trailer, that would probably attract rumours and there were too many of them at one point of life. Thanks but i have to say, i don't think he's kind to Kim only bc of the children (it might be a reason, but not just that)...the kids are adults and they saw and now understand their parents and their situations better and Em is usually kind, at least from what it's seems from this past years. Who knows why would he regret that loan, altho we don't actually know if that's true.
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Post by annie18 on Oct 10, 2024 14:32:11 GMT -5
What the hell? Are we calling people the r word now? Judging a person's looks just by looking at a photo?
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Post by annie18 on Oct 10, 2024 14:38:53 GMT -5
And as for Kim, she has been good friends with a lot of families with kids who have autism or other disabilties for years. It's in her facebook page and also her friends' accounts. She doesn't take in special needs kids for extra income
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Post by grimson on Oct 10, 2024 14:57:23 GMT -5
Man pays for rehab and various things out of his own pocket. She's getting off drugs his entire life and doesn't know how to stop and she had no measure for anything. Desirable ex-husband. He is already known for that specific kindness and does it mostly so as not to resent the children. Gossip has it that he regrets the loan on the last house, although he couldn't let her move into something resembling a trailer, that would probably attract rumours and there were too many of them at one point of life. Thanks but i have to say, i don't think he's kind to Kim only bc of the children (it might be a reason, but not just that)...the kids are adults and they saw and now understand their parents and their situations better and Em is usually kind, at least from what it's seems from this past years. Who knows why would he regret that loan, altho we don't actually know if that's true. Because of children (who are no longer children) and pity for herself.
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Post by traci on Oct 10, 2024 15:15:11 GMT -5
What the hell? Are we calling people the r word now? Judging a person's looks just by looking at a photo? I honestly don’t know why this person keeps coming back except they probably like to try to trigger people with rude comments. Honestly, space/gibson/arbty- why do you keep coming back here?
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Post by missy84 on Oct 10, 2024 15:19:20 GMT -5
She is not taking care of of special needs kids, I’m sure Parker goes to school and has friends and they come over, just like any kid his age.
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Post by grimson on Oct 10, 2024 15:24:51 GMT -5
What the hell? Are we calling people the r word now? Judging a person's looks just by looking at a photo? I honestly don’t know why this person keeps coming back except they probably like to try to trigger people with rude comments. Honestly, space/gibson/arbty- why do you keep coming back here? Who are they, do they think similar? Haven't noticed some of those nicknames yet.
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Post by missy84 on Oct 10, 2024 15:26:19 GMT -5
I honestly don’t know why this person keeps coming back except they probably like to try to trigger people with rude comments. Honestly, space/gibson/arbty- why do you keep coming back here? Who are they, do they think similar? Haven't noticed some of those nicknames yet. Yes they think similar. They say the same stuff as you do.
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Post by grimson on Oct 10, 2024 15:28:44 GMT -5
I'm glad there are more opinions.
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Post by kelllly416 on Oct 10, 2024 15:55:56 GMT -5
I honestly don’t know why this person keeps coming back except they probably like to try to trigger people with rude comments. Honestly, space/gibson/arbty- why do you keep coming back here? Who are they, do they think similar? Haven't noticed some of those nicknames yet. Playing dumb I see lol
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